I seriously think I’m losing my mind. This last year has been tough work wise. The last few months have been tough personally. Which all leads me to wonder if I’m experiencing a nervous breakdown, burn out, or mid life crisis? Perhaps all three.
Let me explain…(and this is the cliff notes version)
Work life– in the past year, I’ve had multiple projects wtih different VPs, all with different expectations and ways of doing things (this is after my boss of 14 years left). Some of my projects went well, others did not. All basically resulting in lower self confidence. I’m pretty good at compartmentalizing my feelings, so I just continued on.
Personal life– the health of my 95 year old uncle goes downhill. While we all know that reaching 95 signifies a fantastic life, his death in July – while a relief at first – hits me hard. I was closer to him than some of my other family. And his death devastates me. But, again, I try and compartmentalize.
A week after my uncles death, I have a mid-year review (not overly positive), and then I find out I’m pregnant. Great news, yes, but my “compartements” that I had created are now breaking down due to my hormonal upheaval. I’m happy, but yet I cry everyday (ok, monday thru friday). I lost my ability to cope with anything work related. I’m so stressed out and I’m afraid, at 41 years of age, that it will affect this precious gift I have growing in me. Especially after seeing multiple friends go through miscarriages. So this stresses me out too.